Sunday, January 19, 2014

Blog#1: Family, Gaijin,Marriage,Japanese-ness

Family
                “…husbands are superior to their wives and that wives should always be at the home to obey husbands.” I found this quote interesting because it relates to America in the 1950’s. However, instead of deriving from Confucianism, the patriarchal ideal for American family came from Christianity, In the 50’s women were expected stay home, wear a dress, raise the kids, cook dinner, and to the housework. This is similar to Japanese culture.
                “ … in Japanese families there still tends to be a strong distinction between family members and others.” This shows a difference between American culture and Japanese culture. America has a wide variety of families and lacks clear family traditional values. This is partly due to the increase in single parent families and divorce. American families are more diverse and it is nice that Japanese families hold a sense of unity.
Gaijin
                “These divisions reflect a basic dichotomy in the Japanese way of thinking” It is interesting that Japanese culture makes clear distinctions between insiders and outsiders and yet they also admire ambiguity.
                “… call people from other country gaijin no matter how long they have lived in Japan or how well they speak the language.” Immigration seems to be a big issue for both American and Japanese culture. Here the problem comes mostly from illegal immigration. This big political issue often leads to discrimination. This is ironic because America is a county of immigrants. Japan, on the other hand, is geographically secluded; therefore, it makes sense why they have clear distinctions between insiders and outsiders.
Marriage
                “Tying together families together by marriage for political power.” Even though this occurred during the Kamakura and Muromachi periods I am curious to know what influence this has on current Japanese culture. This reminds me of the cliché to “marry rich”. I wonder if there is this same cliché  mentality, in Japanese culture, that to be happy all you need to do is marry a rich man or women. 
Japanese-ness
                “inability to criticize others openly” I am a painter and a huge part of being in the art field in having your worked critiques in a public setting; therefore, I find it hard to understand a culture that does not criticize. In the past decade of so the contemporary Japanese art market has exploded and I am curious to know if this lack of criticism extends to the art community. If it does I would like to know how art is taught there.

                “Silence indicates deep thinking or consideration” This has been the opposite of my experiences. In American culture silence is uncomfortable and awkward. I remember a couple years ago it was a popular joke to say “awkward turtle” when there was a long pause in a conversation. At the same time however, the people I am most close too are people that I can be around silently and not feel awkward. In America it seems as though sharing silence indicates a certain level on intimacy. 

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